Girls, listen up...he's just not that into you..

Just a few words of wisdom on guys, harsh but true:

1) An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship".

2) Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking.

3) If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you he will.

4) "Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's house/any bar/ friend's house" is not a date. Even if you live in New York.

5) Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.

6) You are good enough to be asked out.

Feel lucky if the guy lets you know early on that they are not ready for a relationship for whatever reason (thanks, S.R., really, I'm actually kind of relieved!). It saves you from wasting time on him and prevents you from having to deal with heart break if you end up really liking the guy. There are replacements in the wings, girls, so don't sweat it. Next!!